When I was 16 I graduated high school early and didn't know what to do with myself. Jasmine invited me to move across the country to live with them. Tom agreed to take me in and I lived with them in Cambridge for I think almost a year. That experience helped get me over a tough few years and prepare for moving out on my own and creating a life. My memories of Tom are all wonderful - he was fun, funny, kind, a talented craftsman and incredibly generous. He was lighthearted and warm. I am so grateful to Jasmine and Tom and Schuyler for letting me burst into their lives like that and for that time and space.